Are You Ready to Enter a Marital Reconciliation Process?

(1) True/False. This is no physical abuse in our relationship.

(2) True/False. If there has been an affair, I am willing to break off it off.

(3) True/False. My addiction issue (e.g. alcohol, drugs, gambling) has been acknowledged as well as my willingness to take the necessary steps to overcome it.

(4) True/False. I am currently being treated for, or am willing to be treated for, professionally diagnosed mental health issues.

(5) True/False. I want to repair the relationship.

(6) True/False. I am willing to look within myself to identify how I may be contributing to our unresolved issues.

(7) True/False. I am open to change.

(8) True/False. I would be attending sessions without being coerced.

(9) True/False. I am willing to engage in assigned activities between sessions to strengthen our relationship.

(10) True/False. I am or would be willing to forgive the other if there was an acknowledgment of wrongdoing and a heartfelt apology on his or her part.

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If you answered true for all the statements that applied, you have an excellent chance to successfully repair your relationship. To learn more about my effective alternative to traditional marriage counseling click here.

If one or more of your statements are false, the two of you will have to evaluate whether or not it makes sense to go through a reconciliation process before addressing the flagged issue. If you are unsure what to do, call me to discuss your situation at no charge. You can reach me at 239-689-4266. Dr. Ken Newberger