Resources for Couples

Helping Couples

Dr. Newberger's Goal-Oriented Approach

Understanding Yourself and Your Relationships

1. The Transforming Power of Love

a. When Love Fails and When It Breaks Through

b. Give Your Spouse the Gift of Self-Esteem

2. How Secure Were You Growing Up? Today?

a. As a Child: Four Possibilities with brief video clips

b. As An Adult: The Same Four Possibilities

c. A Video Comparison of Childhood and Adultshood 11½ min. video

d. The Making of an Insecure Human Being

e. How Childhood Insecurities Still Impact Us 4½ min. video

Regarding Divorce

1. The Stages of Conflict

2. Generally Speaking, Does Divorce Make People Happy? Not According to This Study.

3. Should I Try to Make the Marriage Work? The Utah Marriage Commission

4. A Chilling Documentary on Divorce & the U.S. Court System 1½ hr. video

5. The Cost and Length of a Divorce published by Nolo

Do You Have Difficulty Expressing Empathy?

1. What Empathy Is and Isn't 2½ min. video

2. Can You Empathize with Any of These Folks? 1½ min. video

3. Learn from an Alfred Hitchcock 1955 TV Episode 24½ min. video

If you find it hard to show kindness toward others, know that someday you will likely need others to show kindness toward you. Why not give today what you yourself will need tomorrow?

4. A Positive Illustration of Becoming More Empathetic

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On Anger

1. How to Control Your Anger (read pages 4-6)

2. An Emmy-Nominated CBS movie on Domestic Violence. The movie deals with both its reality and recovery. and stars actor John Ritter. Based on a true story. 1.5 hours

On Thinking

1. How Our Thinking Can Change